果断力沙龙Assertiveness（慈善活动）-5月30日（所得捐赠给天使之家）

圆梦一 · 发表于 2010-4-30 16:46:18

这个培训我也是第一次知道，培训也是第一次组织，我和组织者董焱老师也聊了一会，并加入了她的群。（悄悄地说，也在网上搜过她的介绍），吸引我的有两点：1、果断力培训；2、培训费用捐赠天使之家。大家有兴趣看看哦~~~

果断力：敢于表达，敞开心扉，坚持立场（坚持自己的立场，同时没有多余地冒犯别人）

Assertiveness: Speaking up; Opening up; and Standing firm

(Standing up for yourself, without needlessly offending other people.)

你了解自己的行为方式么？你与别人交往的行为方式直接关系到你是否能够实现目标。你希望在不影响和他人关系的情况下，表现得更为果断。尽管你的表现令人满意，但是在有些时候，你无法完成你本来计划要完成的事情。为什么要提高果断力呢？主要的原因在于表现得更为果断能够提高工作效率。果断行为引发果断行为，人们会更愿意和你合作，而不是反对你。这样以来，你在生活和工作中更容易获得令你满意的结果。

Learn about yourself. The way you behave towards the other person will define whether you get what you want. Learn whether or not this is at the expense of others. Your performance is in general satisfactory, but in certain situations you do not necessarily do what you were actually planning to do. Why be more assertive? If you behave more assertively you will be more effective in your job. This is because assertiveness tends to breed assertiveness, so people are more likely to work with you, rather than against you. This, in turn makes it easier to obtain a satisfactory result in many of the situations you are faced with both in your private and professional life.

果断力与自信密切相关，并被认为是一项重要的沟通技能。它是一项被世界上众多的个人发展专家和心理治疗师普遍传播的个人能力。然而却很难用一个对等的中文词语来涵盖它的涵义。难道在中国历史文化长河中没有果断力这个概念吗？还是在中国历史上对果断力有不同的诠释？

Assertiveness is linked to self-esteem and considered an important communication skill. It is a trait taught by many personal development experts and psychotherapists worldwide. However it is hardly possible to find a Chinese equivalent word. Is there no assertiveness in Chinese in China’s long cultural history? Or there are different definitions on assertiveness in China?

使用武功，你使用自己的身体，可能会伤害到自己；

运用果断力，你利用自己的智慧，可能会不战而胜.

By martial art, you use your body and might hurt yourself.

By assertiveness, you use your mind and win without fighting.

你想更多地了解果断力并以此提升自己的个人效能吗？我们诚挚地邀请你参加本次果断力慈善沙龙。

Do you want to know more about assertiveness？I invite you to join the Assertiveness Charity Salon.

本次活动的目的:

· 演练在不触犯他人想法和感情的同时,成功地发表自己的想法和意见,

· 帮助你更多地了解自己,学习如何获得自己所想要的,

· 提升工作和社交活动中的个人影响力.

· 解决一个棘手问题(每位参加者可以提前准备一个和自己切身生活有关的问题)

本次活动的目标群体: